This quote serves as a poignant reminder not to turn away from our past but to acknowledge it, embrace its lessons, learn from it, let it go, and step into a brighter future.
Adding to these challenges are the traumas of childhood sexual abuse, abandonment by my mother at 18 months old, and enduring domestic violence. Coupled with the weight of societal judgments as a single, unwed teen mom, the burden of loss intensified with the passing of my son at birth, perpetuating a lifetime of feeling victimised. I would engage in the blame game and lack compassion for others. I carried a lot of anger within me, and I was definitely an old-school, hard-arse parent. You will do as I say, not as I do, often screaming and yelling and smacking as parenting tools. As outdated and barbaric as the old school horse trainer ways with barb wire twitches and making the horse submissive to pain, I was that same way with parenting until I found another way.
Yet, despite enduring numerous hardships and grappling with failed suicide attempts, in 2016, I rediscovered the will to live again when faced with my unborn granddaughter's diagnosis of PFFD.
A few strong women have been responsible for raising me up, and this little miss is No. 1 in my eyes.
Witnessing my 10-month-old daughter's unwavering determination to walk with one leg shorter than the other inspired me to persevere. Her resilience fuelled my resolve to confront my demons and embrace life alongside my two sons and my grandchildren. She really did save me! At times, I thought that even my own children would be better off without me.
Through a multitude of trials, including 14 rounds of electric shocks with ECT for depression, pain management rehabilitation, medicinal cannabis, equine therapy, stem cells & DNA repair, I embark on a journey to share what has worked for me, what didn't, and everything in between. It's a testament to the resilience and the relentless pursuit of healing and growth.
You'll hear me speak passionately about believing in oneself, the power of the universe, deep spirituality, manifesting dreams, setting and achieving goals, and investing in one self’s personal development. It truly is.
Despite being a high school dropout and runaway at 14, I was determined to fulfil the pedestal my father placed me on, envisioning me as a lioness destined to lead.
My journey has been fraught with struggles, including body image issues stemming from adolescence. Despite facing challenges like teenage motherhood, cervical cancer, and undergoing a hysterectomy at 35, I now openly discuss topics like bariatric surgery and sacral colpoplexy surgery for incontinence, aiming to destigmatize these discussions and empower women to make informed decisions about their health and wellbeing.
My aim is not to become a statistic of premature health decline but to defy expectations and live a vibrant life. I share both successes and failures to inspire women to relate and make positive changes in their lives. I am eager for the future and the opportunity to help other women struggling with the same debilitating restraints. I feel I have cracked the code and am on a mission to help as many humans as possible.
In 2009, at 33, I received a diagnosis of fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue, facing the prospect of premature physical decline. After years of relentless pursuit, I've been fibromyalgia-free for the past two years, a testament to perseverance and exploring unconventional paths to healing.
I offer a free 33-page guide on how to look, feel, and live 20 years younger while liberating oneself from the constraints of fibromyalgia. Additionally, I invite you to delve deeper into the methods, tools, and modalities that have facilitated my recovery, including but not limited to stem cells, DNA repair, & equine therapy.
My journey is not about boasting achievements but about instilling hope. There is a life beyond fibromyalgia, and I hope that by sharing my journey, others may find solace and inspiration to embark on their own path to wellness.
I empower you to nourish your body, revitalise your spirits, and reclaim your vitality through the transformative power of nutrition, mindset, and holistic wellness practices.
Together, we delve into the depths of your traumas, releasing anxiety and pain to uncover the euphoric freedom that comes with healing.
My leadership style is rooted in collaboration and teamwork, harnessing your strengths, weaknesses, and values to craft a path towards realising your dreams.
I aspire to help YOU discover the radiance that lies dormant within YOU, waiting to burst forth like a halo of light, illuminating their path and those around them.
Elevation comes from lifting each other, sharing wisdom, and offering support as we navigate the complexities of life. Inspiration fuels our journey, sparking the flame of possibility and reminding us of the boundless potential that resides within each of us.
Enrichment involves nourishing the mind, body, and soul, cultivating a sense of wholeness and fulfilment that transcends external circumstances. It's about embracing your unique journey, honouring your story, and finding strength in your vulnerabilities.
Empowerment is the cornerstone of my mission, empowering women to reclaim their voices, rewrite their narratives, and stand tall in the brilliance of their own light. Together, we can shatter limitations, defy expectations, and create a world where every woman feels seen, heard, and valued.
Living a more youthful, energetic life is not just about defying age or adhering to societal norms; it's about embracing vitality and joy in every moment. It's about waking up each day with a sense of purpose and excitement, fueled by the pursuit of our deepest passions and dreams.
By tapping into your inner reserves of resilience and determination, you can break free from the constraints of expectation and live authentically, embracing the full spectrum of your potential. It's about shedding the weight of doubt and fear and stepping boldly into the realm of possibility.
Living the best version of oneself is an ongoing journey of self-discovery and growth. It's about honouring your strengths, acknowledging your limitations, and embracing the journey with open arms. It's about cultivating a mindset of abundance and gratitude, finding beauty in both the triumphs and the challenges along the way.
Together, let's embark on a quest to live our most vibrant, authentic lives—to chase our dreams with unwavering determination and to celebrate every victory, no matter how small. Let's embrace the journey, savouring each moment as we strive to become the best versions of ourselves, shining brightly and inspiring others to do the same.